Today I'm listening to: The Wombats
Mood: Good
When I realised that yes, I am actually going to be getting married, one of the first things I wanted to do was ask my nearest and dearest to be part of the wedding party. I'd been waiting for years to get engaged and when I finally got there, there was no chance I was waiting any longer to ask! I have four lovely girls as my wedding troupe, something my mum thinks is madness!
The criteria that I thought about when choosing my bridesmaids was very simple, they had to know me well enough and love me enough to be able to handle the inevitable crazy period that I will no doubt go through, and they also have to be as excited as me and Ross for our big day! After that, picking the girls was so easy, so here's an introduction!
Maid of Honour
Name: Louise
Relation: Sister
I picked Louise as my maid of honour for a few reasons, it's not just that she's my sister and that I was her maid of honour as well, quite simply, I picked Louise because she is my best bud. Sisters fight and we are no different, we argue all the time, but five minutes later and we're having a laugh over something else. She also keeps me right as far as fashion is concerned. When I was born, I was unfortunate enough to be born without a fashion gland (you know, that thing inside women's brains which tell them what to wear and what not to wear) and a complete toyboy. I never wear make up and I own 1 nice dress that was subject to 3 days scrutiny from Louise and 90% of the staff in the shop, who had gathered round to see how I looked in it. In short, there is no one else I would trust to help me pick my wedding dress.
Second in Command
Name: Suzanne
Relation: Future Sister in Law/Best Friend
I met Suzy years ago, she was going out with a mutual friend and we sometimes saw each other, we always got on and stuff, just never really seen each other enough to become close friends or anything. A few months later Suzy started seeing Jamie, who is Ross's younger brother. For a few years we still hardly saw each other despite all staying in the same flat and it was sometimes quite awkward encountering anyone in the hall/kitchen, as we didn't know each other that well. Fast forward a couple of years and we're all very close now since they had our nephew James, and Suzanne is actually one of my closest friends and I love her like a sister. So when it came to picking bridesmaids I didn't even need to think about it, she'll be standing next to me the day I get married!
Third in Command
Name: Cat
Relation: Oldest friend
I've known this girl since I was 5, she moved into my street just before we started school. When we were kids, we didn't always see eye to eye because we were both such strong personalities, and had such wide differences in opinion over so many things, plus you know what kids are like, cruel little humans. When we got to high school, we (well, I) grew up a bit and we started to get on really well, it's nearly ten years later and we are best of pals, we're both on the same page and I'm very proud of everything that she's achieved so far - I say so far, she's destined for big things, I think she may actually discover the cure for cancer one day! So happy that this girl agreed to be my bridesmaid because I literally love the bones of her.
Fourth in Command
Name: Louise
Relation: Best Bud!
I first met Louise at the school disco in 2nd year, we danced to Brown Eyed Girl and we bonded over a mutual love for all things musical (we were and still are really cool). Pretty much from that night on we were attached at the hip, sitting next to each other in all classes (I might dig some of the notes we used to pass each other out and post them here!) and we would be at gigs all the time, hanging about the back of venues trying to catch a glimpse of the bands, meeting them all and basically stalking them through Glasgow. There was a while where we didn't talk to each other and I really missed her face and when we patched things up and it felt as though we were still teenagers and nothing had changed, chatting away and being odd together. We might not see each other as much as we should, but she's still my best pal even after all these years and I'm so chuffed she's going to be my bridesmaid!
So there you have it, there's the bridesmaids who I love and can't wait to see what they come up with for my hen night! They all know they are special to me and now you know too!
See you all soon!
Hxxx











